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The London EDITION - London, United Kingdom

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💌 The event 💌

What do the secrets we keep about our sex life really reveal about us? And what do they say about how we see sex, intimacy, and our relationships more broadly?

For the past year, Eleanor Tattersfield, owner of Marby and Elm, has been collecting the UK's sex secrets by way of anonymously-written postcards. The collection is now over 100-postcards strong, with messages revealing details of affairs, first-orgasms, illicit hook-ups in unlikely places, unexplored sexual fantasies, newly-explored sexual fantasies, fabulous fucks, and fucks that were downright disappointing, orgies, squirting and everything in between.

Together they tell a pretty saucy and often salacious story about the state of our sex lives.

According to sex therapist, and host of the Sexual Wellness Sessions podcast, Kate Moyle, "the postcards are a form of sex education, and are opening up our narratives about what we find erotic, desirable, pleasurable and what turns us on."

Kate interviewed Eleanor for the first episode of the new season of her podcast, and now the pair join me and sexpert, Scotty Unfamous, to discuss a selection of 'sex secrets' and offer some sage advice on the sexual lows and woes and stories of unrequited love they reveal.

We'll host a live reading of some of the best of this fabulous bunch of sex secrets, and also ask that you, the audience, anonymously offer a sex secret of your own to close the night.


🧠 The speakers 🧠

Shakira 'Scotty Unfamous' Scott, the inappropriately fancy, London-based multi-award-winning erotic romance author and your fave Sexfluencer. Scotty started her blog (read here) to help women of colour explore and remove the stigma around their sexuality and to educate them in the art of sensuality. Through her videos, blogs and workshops she seeks to promote and inspire self-love and body confidence. She has appeared on Channel 4, BBC Woman's Hour, and a whole tonne more.

@scottyunfamous

Kate Moyle, Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist and Certified Psycho-Sexologist. Kate believes that so much of what needs normalising when it comes to sex and relationships can be changed through conversation - enter, The Sexual Wellness Sessions podcast, which is doing just that.

@katemoyletherapy

Eleanor Tattersfield is the owner of Marby & Elm, a glorious little stationery shop on Exmouth Market in Clerkenwell. After the success of 'Lockdown Secrets', Eleanor decided to launch 'Sex Secrets' in the hopes it would make people feel less alone in whatever they feel unable to openly share about their sex life.

@marbyandelm


✔️ The rundown ✔️

6:30pm: Arrival and drinks

7pm: Discussion starts

8:15pm: Anonymous q&a when I invite you to put all your sex qs and sex woes to my brilliant panel

9pm: Event finishes

🥂 Tickets include a complimentary drink on arrival.

Can't wait to see you there!

Emma-Louise

🧡Sex Talks host and creator, and co-founder of Her Hustle🧡

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Sharing Sex Secrets... What's Yours?London, United Kingdom