Personality development tips for a better you In this article you’re going to learn personality development tips and tricks in the shortest time possible. And, how to add little habits to your day, that mount up to a big change. Remember, this all takes hard work and persistence. But, just like everything in life, it’s worth it in the end. 1. Visualization In the last article I asked you to take a mental picture of yourself with all your new traits. To see yourself succeeding with this new personality. Now, you’re going to carry it on. For 21 days. The 21-Day Challenge is something I first heard about from the PluginID blog. It’s a great way to set yourself up for success with this. Because, once you can see yourself doing it – it’s much easier to achieve. This challenge comes in four steps: 1. Visualize a time where you acted how you want to be now 2. Picture yourself in a new scenario, being how you want to be 3. Remember you are going to die 4. Think of a problem or issue that is holding you back You’re going to feel strong emotions with this – anger, distress, sadness – but this is essential to the process. In this fire is where your new personality is forged. 2. Dress in a style that makes you feel confident Who cares about being fashionable? Unless you define yourself by wearing the highest fashion, it really doesn’t matter. It’s more important that you wear clothes that make you feel confident. • Got a leather jacket that makes you feel hot? Wear it. • Got new shoes that melt away your problems? Wear them. • Bought a new shirt you love, but your friends hate? Still, wear it. Because all that matters is how you feel in your clothes; not how you look. If the clothes that you’re wearing make you think you’re a million dollars, you’ll project that. You’ll have more confidence and self esteem to show for it.It’s better to feel amazing in a $5 t-shirt, than feel out of place in a $500 suit. 3. Be confident – Don’t look down Have you ever been walking down the street, or in a mall, and made eye contact with someone – what’s the first thing you do? You probably look down, right? Or quickly look away from them. Well, that’s not unusual. But it’s a sign of low confidence. It’s a submissive act to the person you’re looking at, and it says a lot about your personality. So this is a great place to spend some time making a change. This is something I struggled with for a long time, too. But the moment you start focusing on not looking down, your confidence soars. https://beyond.ideas.aha.io/ideas/BEYOND-I-2443