Proximity? What you think about when you hear this word? Everyone perceive the world in a different way. Desire, affection, intimacy, trust, the real proximity should be built of these words. Skin is a skin. What about the skin of the person we are attracted to? Everyone has an aura, we don’t see the colors, but we can feel them, methaphorically, they interact on our mood. We just feel the atmosphere. Everyone eminate colors. We cannot see the colors on the skin but we can feel these colors. Intimacy is perceived in a different way by each person. Some people perceive it as a naked body, some as a mind, problems and secrets. Intimacy is a private sphere, it is something not everyone can see, only elected can see the realer real, not by using eyes but only by using feelings. Seeing by feeling.