You look over at me. A woman says something to me. And I immediately come back with a smooth or funny remark. "How does he do it? Some guys are just lucky." Actually, it's a skill that is learned with time. Fortunately, you can learn how to do it too. Follow these guidelines, and you'll eventually be a very smooth guy:
Throw yourself into debates
A lot of people think that arguing isn't worth it. It depends. If you're arguing with an idiot, then it's a waste of your time. However, if the person has any kind of tact, then it's totally worth your time. By constantly debating and arguing, you'll learn the art of developing counterpoints. Two things should develop: 1) You'll learn what to say to throw someone off balance and 2) You'll learn how to time them perfectly.
For example, let's say a girl says to me "I'm sorry, I don't like boys", I might respond with "Good, I don't like boys either. Now we have something in common". Chances are, she's going to recognize game and open up to me. The whole point, is to throw her off balance, and cause her to realize that you have a little bit of tact to your game. Women love men who have verbal tact.
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Take part in random, verbally creative activities
For example, I did improv acting for three years. During that time, I spent a lot of time in situations that required fast creative thinking. That's where you see a lot of my humor come from. Many think that some of the funny stuff I say comes out of nowhere, when in actuality, it's a learned skill.
Another example of how I built that skill is by spending a lot of time cracking jokes with other guys on each other. When you have a crowd of people around you, the pressure is on you to say something funny fast.
Yes, you're going to look stupid a lot. I can remember times when all eyes were on me, and nothing funny would come out. The point is, I kept at it, and within time, I became really good at it.
Say it without saying it
I practice this day in and day out. Women do as well. For example, when one of the girls wanted to have sex with me, she said "I'm tired and going to bed. Come with me.". And as soon as we got into my bedroom, we were tearing off each other's clothes before we could even make it to my bed. Notice how she said she wanted to have sex without saying it.
A couple days ago, a girl knew I was spitting game at her, and she called me out on it. She said "the boy has game", and I responded in a jokingly manner with "cause I have more lines than a coke dealer, right?".
If a woman calls you out on your game in a positive manner, then she's saying that you're better than most guys she comes across. However, this is not the same as using a canned routine or line. If you do that, chances are, she's just going to laugh in your face and walk away. You want to use creative instantaneous game, not canned game.
Women catch on to the small things like that. It was my way of saying 'not only do I have game, but I'm also a creative funny guy, and I can do it within an instant' all in one sentence. In the end, we spent the entire night together.