Your Transformation Station
Rather than using the previous relationship as a scapegoat to avoid the recurrence of behaviors, I encourage the opposite sex to critically think about the real reason why the relationship failed. Yes, we can blame each other for our feelings of being hurt, but what good will that do? Make you more frustrated and continue blaming reality (conscious theme). The next thing you know, you've become an identical representation of the individual you has hurt you. (HURT PEOPLE, Hurt people and HEALED PEOPLE Heal people). Which you swore you would never do, but?! It's too late now. It's simple here, and could you kindly read it? I encourage you to carry the flame by first reminding yourself. We can only be active players in our progress if we participate. Take a glance in the mirror and love the person looking back you. I am a survivor from getting away from the emotional abuse of a narcissist. Once I stopped, blaming her for the emotional abuse that I’ve gone through and everything that I have lost and I mean I lost everything. From my identity, my house, 10 grand, time, almost failed out of getting my bachelor’s degree and 25,000 subscribers to the podcast I have spent 3 years working day and night on and lastly my son. Waking up one day and realizing I’m done, blaming her for the mistakes and started taking accountability and my healing so I can go and get full custody. That’s what matters. I encourage those who are reading this to stop running around and blaming narcissist for the issues that they’re dealing with. May I remind you narcissist only mirror you and understand where your deficiencies are and use that against you. That being said, who is the real problem? Running around, blaming people and calling them narcissist goes all the way back to the Salem witch trials, calling everyone a witch without actually understanding the situation. I’m actually going to release an episode in a few weeks that compares and contrast back in the 1600s to today and we continue to repeat history. #narcissist #salemwitchtrials #favazza #ytsthepodcast #NewVersion #podcast